The last few weeks I reflected a lot on how I can push myself more, whether it's pushing myself to meet new people, voice my opinion, question others, or just believe in myself more. These goals are all well and fine, but one thing that often has to be overcome is getting over a sense of fear.
The truth is I get scared.
My fear can be powerful. It can silence me. It can influence my actions (or inactions), thoughts and feelings. And it doesn't necessarily have a rationale reason for existing - it simply is.
A few years back I thought that there were two types of people: people that were naturally brave and accomplished things, and people that weren't naturally brave, but could have moments of courage. It took me some time to realize that we all have our fears. Having fears is as human as having dreams or hopes or doubts. The difference is actually the choice to act in spite of your fears or not. Having courage is not the absence of fear, but acting in spite of it.
What I relearned today is this act - acting despite your fear - is a constant pursuit. And like all constant pursuits, a step back or missed chance is part of the journey. And that's OK.
Want more love for your soul?
Today I'll leave you with a favorite quote of mine by Anais Nin:
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.
So have courage and be bold of heart!